I’ve been on a nearly lifelong journey to learn how to build confidence and self-esteem, and it’s never a straight line or progress. I have created this post in a proud partnership with California Psychics to share how a psychic advisor can be someone who helps you with your life journey.
I feel like I’m at a point in life in which I really have to open myself to new experiences. And that’s because it’s pretty much been new experiences for years now, with the ways of the world, and having fairly back-to-back pregnancies. I really thought I knew who I was two years ago, and that has changed dramatically. Now that I’m only a few weeks postpartum, I find myself feeling a little lost again. It’s hard to get a handle on who you are when you’re so sleepless and when your role in the family keeps shifting. I had the baby a little earlier than expected and wasn’t ready. Then I had a spinal headache that landed me back in the hospital for a day, and we had to scramble to find emergency childcare. After I came home for good, I had to rest for a week or so. It was so strange for me to not be on the go. I realized that my life was vastly different now.
How to Build Confidence and Self-Esteem:
With new beginnings (and endings), you also discover more about yourself. Sometimes when I feel weak and afraid, it means I’m shedding some baggage and leaving it behind while gaining new tools along the way. In the past, I have felt very weak and overwhelmed after welcoming a new baby into the home. And while I am feeling that way yet again, I did expect it this time, and I have the experience to know that it won’t last forever. However, it’s ok to feel a little lost and confused. And it’s ok to reach out for help, with your loved ones, with friends, and maybe, with California Psychics as well. I was looking for motivation and inspiration. Plus, this time I chose an online psychic advisor who uses tools. There are many, like Dream Analysis, Astrology, Numerology, Crystals, Oracle Cards, Runes, I-Ching, Pendulum, and more. Some use no tools! Understanding your ethereal astrology reading can give you some input on your future development.This unique service can help you get re-aligned with your goals, and with yourself.
My Psychic Reading:
I chose Psychic Anasela because she was online at a time convenient to me (when both babies were sleeping) and she uses Tarot Cards as a tool. This was new to me! She asked me to state my name twice for the cards, after giving her my questions, concerns, and reasons for calling. I called because I was feeling a little lost and overwhelmed, with a touch of the postpartum blues. I wanted to feel better and learn how to build confidence and self-esteem back in my life. We talked a lot about ways to do that, and she touched upon some problems I have, like about never asking for help, or accepting it, and about never taking time for myself. We talked about finding a safe space in my home and in my head and being consistent with finding that space for myself. Eventually, it will become second nature, and I will gain back my confidence, self-esteem, and power. And I will only grow with it.
California Psychics:
As you may know, California Psychics helps people unleash their full potential, and go on to live inspired and plentiful lives. It is light and refreshing and anchored in goodness. Plus, it is committed to inspiring others to feel optimistic, connected, and fulfilled. That can be difficult to do in current times, and for me, having two babies so close together has somewhat stripped me of everything I thought I knew about myself. It’s a real shake up, and I am excited that California Psychics is discreet, confidential, and always OPEN 24/7 at a time and cost that works just for me. California Psychics has really high-quality standards, accepting only 2 in 100 applicants through rigorous testing and training. It offers insightful expert guidance, deep revelations, and unconventional tools to help you get where you’re looking to go.
How to Build Confidence and Self-Esteem:
1 – Figure out where your lack of confidence comes from, because the root cause can give you a map for building it back up. You can find out through journaling, and a little exercise in which you record low-confidence moments, thoughts, or sayings. Then for each one, ask yourself who or what told you that. Journal out a re-creation of these thoughts, as well as a plan to move on.
2 – Know you will fail sometimes, and that it’s ok. Everyone fails sometimes.
3 – Understand that emotions and feelings are temporary and choose to focus on what you can control.
4 – Take breaks, from social media, from loved ones, from noise and activity. Sometimes I need only an hour break from social media or people, and sometimes I need a whole day away – from social media. I don’t have that option with such little ones in the house, to take an all-day break from people.
5 – Get professional help or guidance. We go through many times in life in which we need some sort of professional help. I needed guidance to get through getting married, having kids, and going through milestones with the kids. I have taken long breaks, but have found that right now, I’m looking for the guidance that California Psychics can provide for me.
Use code: tamara10 to get $10 added to your account for your first reading! You can sign up at californiapsychics.com or download the app. I can’t wait to hear all about it!
So, how do you build confidence and self-esteem?
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